kalau dah jodoh.....

last two days,one of my best friends gave a very very very shock news that i can't believe at first.she is getting married this coming january and as usual i can't attend the wedding.i don't know her partner and he is 5 years older than my friend.what make me couldn't believe with this news is we always talk about marriage a few times before and she never mentioned about meeting this guy.She was just get to sheffield last month and her mom will prepare for he wedding.they got engaged few days before she leave malaysia without our classmates or closed friends knew about the engagement.*sigh*

she called me from uk and asked me not to kill her after heard the news.i just be speechless and couldn't stop to scream at her.luckily i was in my lab so i have to control my voice volume.hahhahaha..

so what i want to talk here is about "JODOH"..org melayu selalu cakap, kalo dah jodoh cepat je perkara kahwin ni akan berlaku.i do agree with it.nape yek..dah banyak berlaku kat depan mata sendiri.contoh paling terbaru kes kawan aku ni la..die kata kenal tunang die tu dalam middle tahun ni kirenye baru 2-3 bulan n after that they get engaged.dalam family, kes kak long..kenal pun dalam 2-3bulan pastu tunang..3bulan lepas tu kawin..rasenye mmg betul kot bile jodoh kite dah sampai dan kite jumpa org yg mmg dah Allah tentukan utk kite tu, cepat je seme berlaku ye..kekadang kalo lama2 berkawan ni tak elok gak sbb bile lama berkawan kite akan nampak baik buruk org tu dan dugaan tu lagi la besar.contohnye berkawan la sampai 4-5 tahun pastu bertunang..lagi selangkah nak kawin tapi boleh putus tunang..pelik kan..

jodoh kita Allah dah tentukan masa kita lahir lagi.tapi tak bermakna kite kena tunggu je tanpa wat pe2. masa aku kat maktab jasin dulu, ade sorang senior ni bagi tazkirah..katenye jodoh mmg Allah dah tentukan tapi kite kena usaha utk dapatkan jodoh tu..kalo banyak sangat pkir pun tak elok gak rasenye..kawan aku cakap, camne die leh terbuka hati ngan tunang die tu pun tak tau la tapi yg pasti die cakap kalo dah bertunang dan kawin nanti,kita dah takkan pandang ke belakang..kena terima qada dan qadar..kes die ni akan jadi bercinta lepas kawin..menarik gak kan..best friend aku yg lain pun ade gak kes camtu,,.yg tu lagi best sampai dah nak ari nikah pun tak jumpa2 lagi..macam2 hal kengkawan aku ni..

although i'm already 25 my mom never ask me "when i going to marry or blablabla"..
she just once told me that when she was 25,she already have my elder sister.opps..what she means by that..rase cam mak perli tapi aku wat dek je..ehhehhe..wat masa ni aku lebih pkir camne nak settle kan blajar dan tahun depan nak keje..kawin?? m..kalo ade jodoh..insya Allah kita akan kawin..ngan sape ek????its still mystery and i have no answer for the question yet...